Why do parents forget what it was like to be a child or an adolescent?
Why do the newly rich forget what it was like to be poor?
Why do the healthy forget what it was like to be sick?
Why do the married forget what the struggles were like to be single?
Why do we forget and become ungrateful for all the things we now have? Worse. Why do we start pointing fingers, looking down upon and hurting people who are now in the position we once were? Where has the empathy gone?
Why do friends forget what it was like to have none? Why do they suddenly start avoiding the friends who are in need, inspite of them being there through thick and thin? What makes us act this way? So selfishly. As if the world revolves around us. As though we are right and everyone else is wrong. Our pain is pain but someone else’s pain is nothing. Someone else’s loss is meaningless.
How can we deal with people in such a selfish manner and then face Allah in prayer each day and cry in our duas asking for help and beg for mercy? Is that what Islam taught us? Do we even know Islam if this is our behaviour? If we can’t want for our brother/sister (in Islam) what we want for ourselves, are we really good Muslims?
May Allah place mercy and empathy in our hearts. Ameen.
