It’s been almost 9 months or so since I started to keep food for the birds in my balcony. I’ve had a wonderful variety of birds coming to eat. Although, it’s mostly pigeons, I’m also getting sparrows, doves, mynas, a crow (never knew they were in the area!), and a couple of BulBuls. I realized early on that they were a pair and mashaAllah they are really pretty birds even though they are not so colourful. Probably the most distinguishing feature about them is their red bottom!

However, this is not what made me smile. For a few days, I hadn’t heard or seen the Bulbul pair come to my balcony and I felt bad because I wasn’t sure where else they might be finding food. However, I was pleasantly alerted to their presence by their sweet voice. As I peaked through my balcony door, I saw a baby along with them! It was bigger than a sparrow and had a funny tweet but cute nonetheless. MashaAllah! I really wished to take a family picture but I didn’t want to scare them on their baby’s first trip. I’m absolutely delighted.
This Made Me Smile – part 3
October 27, 2009 at 8:57 am (random)
Tags: bulbul, crow, dove, myna, pigeon, sparrow
Feeling Grateful
October 24, 2009 at 11:51 pm (Islam, Naseeha/Advice)
Tags: grateful, tests, trials
So often we talk about being grateful to Allah (swt) for the things we have been given but sometimes it takes a while for the realization to really set in for what we have and what we haven’t been tested with.
Although, I am usually around patients and see different diseases, I tend to look at them from a learner’s/doctor’s perspective until the last few days when people I know have told me of their afflictions and I’ve got to see the emotional effects of those problems. Alhumdulillah, none are life-threatening, yet it is something that also pains them to be suffering from such problems. And that’s when I realize how lucky I am (not in a selfish way) that Allah (swt) hasn’t tried me in this manner as yet. I really feel bad for them and try to cheer them up and try to help them see the brighter side of things as well. And it also makes me realize that even though people may not be going through the same trials I face but surely Allah tests us all in our own ways. So, instead of focusing on the difficulties we are facing, we should focus on the things we are NOT being tried with.
Whenever you realize that Allah (swt) protected you from something, say Alhumdulillah and thank Allah and ask Him to continue to bless you in what you have. If your dua is accepted, then pray 2 rakaats non-obligatory prayer and thank Him. And keep asking Allah (swt) to protect you and your family and friends and other Muslims.
(PS: I know I haven’t added any hadith or Quranic ayahs regarding this matter as I normally do. It’s because I’ve been a bit busy lately & will find some soon but this topic has been on my mind this week and I wanted to share it. But feel free to share the ones you know in this matter and I’ll include them in my post.)
Duas Unanswered
October 19, 2009 at 8:33 pm (Duas, Naseeha/Advice)
Tags: dua, faith, patience, unanswered
There are times in our lives when we are concerned about our duas not being accepted but one should not feel disheartened.
Allah says in the Quran:
“When my servants ask thee concerning Me, I am indeed close to them: I respond to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me; let them also, with a will, listen to My call and believe in Me: that they may walk in the right way”
(surah Baqarah 2:186)
He (swt) listens to every supplication and either the dua is answered or it is kept for a later time or Allah (swt) removes some misfortune from the path of the person or it is kept to be given as a reward in the Hereafter.
The Prophet (pbuh) said:
“If a Muslim invokes Allah for other than sin or the severing of relations, Allah in turn responds to his Du’a in one of three ways; either He accepts it (and grants what was asked for),or He delays its reward to the Hereafter, or He removes a calamity from him that equals his Du’a (in magnitude). The Companions said, “ We will then supplicate often.” The Prophet (pbuh) replied, “Allah will reward you greatly.” [Ahmad, Bazzar, Abu Ya’la and Hakim]
The Prophet (pbuh) explained how the answer of a Du’a is good in all its forms even if it appears as though they were not answered. The Prophet (pbuh) said:
“On the day of judgement, Allah will call a believer until he stands before Him. ‘O My servant, I have commanded you to call upon Me and have promised to answer you. Did you truly call upon Me?’ He (the servant) will say, ‘Yes, my Lord.’ Allah will say, ‘Whenever you called upon Me I answered you. Did you not call upon Me on the day of such and such to relieve your calamity and I did?’The servant will say, ‘Yes my Lord.’ Allah will say, ‘I gave it you in the worldly life, Allah will add, ‘Did you not call upon Me on the day of such and such to relieve your calamity but it seemed that I did not reply to you.’ The servant will say, ‘Yes my Lord.’ Allah will say, ‘I compensated such and such for you in Paradise.’ Allah will say, ‘Did you not call on Me to meet your need and I did.’ The servant will say, ‘Yes my Lord.’ Allah will add, “I gave it to you in worldly life.’ ‘Did you not call on Me on the day of such and such to meet your need but it seemed that I did not reply to you.’ The servant will say, ‘Yes my Lord.’ Allah will say, ‘I compensated such and such for you in Paradise.” The Messenger of Allah said, “ Allah will never leave out any supplication of a believer unless He will expound this for him through the following; either He will give it to him in worldly life or delay it in the Hereafter. Thereupon, the believer will say, ‘I wish I was given nothing of my du’a in this world.” [Hakim]
So even if for some reason our duas seemed to not have been answered for this world, they will be as rewards in the Hereafter. The best thing to do then is to be assured that no matter what, we will always benefit from making duas.
American Sympathy For Discrimination Against Muslims
October 4, 2009 at 10:14 am (Islam, News)
Tags: discrimination against Muslims, Islamophobia, sympathy
Have you ever tried googling for “Islam” in the news? I did and majority of the stories were related to spreading fear about Islam and talks of militants and suicide bombers adding to the already present Islamophobia. But I was happy to come across this particular article which shows that the effort Muslims are making in talking about the real side of Islam and spreading the understanding of it’s teachings is starting to make a difference.
Fewer Americans see Islam as violent, poll finds
The percentage of Americans who believe Islam encourages violence has declined in recent years but remains far above where it was in 2002, while very basic knowledge about the faith has shown modest increases, according to a new survey by the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life.
Most Americans also believe Muslims are discriminated against, a finding that suggests empathy for a community whose leaders often say they are regarded with suspicion and hostility.
The nationwide survey of over 4,000 adults in August found that 58 percent of Americans believe Muslims face a lot of discrimination in the United States. By contrast the same numbers for atheists and Mormons are 26 and 24 percent respectively.
“The fact that Americans believe Muslims face a lot of discrimination is a substantial finding … It is sort of like the public looking at itself in the mirror and there is some empathy for a group facing discrimination,” said Michael Dimock, an associate director at the Pew Research Center.
VIEWS LINKED TO FAITH, POLITICS
As a group, only gays and lesbians were seen worse off than Muslims in this regard with 64 percent saying they faced a lot of discrimination.
Thirty-eight percent of those polled believed Islam was more likely than other faiths to encourage violence, down from the 45 percent who held this view two years earlier.
But that number has fluctuated over the years and in 2002, when it was first asked the year after the Sept. 11 attacks, only 25 percent of the U.S. public said they thought Islam encouraged more violence than other faiths.
“Within other religious groups, fewer than four-in-ten people express this opinion (39 percent of white mainline Protestants, 38 percent of white Catholics, 33 percent of the religiously unaffiliated and 30 percent of black Protestants.)”
Over the past several years, Pew has found that Americans’ knowledge of the most basic facts about Islam has increased modestly though many remain in the dark about the faith.
“A slim majority of Americans know the Muslim name for God is Allah, and a similar number can correctly name the Koran as the Islamic sacred text. Overall, 41 percent of the public is able to answer both questions correctly,” Pew said. In 2002 only 33 percent responded to both questions correctly.
But 36 percent of Americans remain “unfamiliar with either term,” according to Pew.
The article talks of how it’s mainly the politicians who have a stronger view of Islam as a violent faith.
Another article on the same study by the Associated Press reads:
“Americans are learning more about Islam, and familiarity with the faith makes people more likely to view Muslims favorably and less likely to believe Islam encourages violence, according to a new study.
The “small and gradual, but noticeable” change has an affect, Smith said. Those most familiar with Islam were least likely to link the religion with violence. Fifty-seven percent of people who knew the names Muslims use to refer to God and their sacred text, and were also acquainted with a Muslim, said Islam did not encourage violence more than other faiths.
The same percentage of that group said their overall opinion of Muslims was favorable and 70 percent of that group said there’s discrimination against Muslims.
Only 21 percent of those with a low familiarity with Islam had a favorable opinion of Muslims, and less than half of that group saw a lot of discrimination against them.
Ibrahim Hooper, spokesman for the Council on American-Islamic Relations, said Pew’s findings back up his own group’s research. He blamed a “vocal minority” in the U.S. for fanning anti-Muslim bias with increasingly harsh rhetoric since 9/11.
“Unfortunately, people have focused on that tiny, tiny minority of Muslims who have carried out violent acts, and claim to act in the name of Islam,” he said. “Ninety-nine point nine, nine percent of all Muslims will live and die without coming near an act of violence.”
Seemi Choudry, a 20-year-old Muslim student at Loyola University in Chicago, was skeptical of the report’s findings that said Americans were more familiar with Islam.
“If they are learning Islam through mass media and pop culture, that’s easily accessible stuff,” she said. “I don’t know that’s the type of Islam that I would want to be infiltrated with.”
The survey did not address where or how Americans were getting information about Islam.
Choudry said she has not experienced any discrimination personally, but feels that Muslims on the whole are treated differently.
“We do suffer discrimination, which is the consequence of a lack of knowledge or ignorance,” she said.
Most of the findings came from a survey by the Pew Research Center for the People & the Press and the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life, conducted Aug. 11-17 among 2,010 adults. It has a margin of error of plus or minus 2.5 percent. Some findings also came from another survey of 2,003 adults conducted Aug. 20-27.
Hooper said continuing education about Islam is the key to fighting prejudice. In June, CAIR began a campaign to distribute free copies of the Quran to 100,000 local and national leaders, from President Obama to local school principals.
“When knowledge about Islam goes up, prejudice goes down,” Hooper said.”
This is definitely a good sign thanks to the efforts taken by the Muslim as well as the non-Muslim community to change this impression among the general public. This again shows that it is so important for Muslims to practice good character and the true teachings of Islam and spread it’s message to the people.
Hadith that we can reflect on:
Narrated Asma’ bint Abu Bakr: My mother came to me, hoping (for my favor) during the lifetime of the Prophet asked the Prophet, “May I treat her kindly?” He replied, “Yes.” Ibn ‘Uyaina said, “Then Allah revealed: ‘Allah forbids you not with regards to those who fought not against you because of religion, and drove you not out from your homes, that you should show them kindness and deal justly with them.’…….(60.8)
Narrated Masruq: Abdullah bin ‘Amr mentioned Allah’s Apostle saying that he was neither a Fahish nor a Mutafahish. Abdullah bin ‘Amr added, Allah’s Apostle said, ‘The best among you are those who have the best manners and character.’
Yahya related to me from Malik that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard Said ibn al-Musayyab say, “Shall I tell you what is better than much prayer and sadaqa?” They said, “Yes.” He said, “Mending discord. And beware of hatred – it strips you (of your deen).”
Yahya related to me from Malik that Yahya ibn Said said that he heard Said ibn al-Musayyab say, “Shall I tell you what is better than much prayer and sadaqa?” They said, “Yes.” He said, “Mending discord. And beware of hatred – it strips you (of your deen).”
Yahya related to me from Malik from Ibn Shihab from Said ibn al-Musayyab from Abu Hurayra that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “A strong person is not the person who throws his adversaries to the ground. A strong person is the person who contains himself when he is angry.”
Also refer to my previous post here.
Michael Schumacher Is The Stig?
October 3, 2009 at 1:41 am (TV)
Tags: BBC, michael schumacher, the stig, top gear
Okay, I know I’m a few months late on this great discovery. I’ve been busy and I just saw the episode.
Anyway, so here’s what an article had to point out regarding the episode:
Some say that it was a publicity stunt, and that the BBC almost broke its own guidelines by allowing a guest to plug a brand of rum. All we know is: Top Gear has claimed that Michael Schumacher is The Stig.
The corporation pretended that it would finally end speculation about the identity of the mysterious test driver who puts cars through their paces for the programme by claiming that the real Stig would be unmasked.
But in the event it was a stunt to allow Michael Schumacher, the former Formula One champion, to give publicity for Bacardi, which pays him to raise its profile.
The segment, broadcast at 8.30pm on BBC Two, showed the driver breaking the lap record for vehicles on the Top Gear track while driving a Ferrari FXX. Schumacher broke the previous record, set by a Gumpert Apollo, by almost seven seconds as he crossed the finishing line in 1 minute and 10.7 seconds.
Here’s the point to pay attention to though:
Footage at the end of the programme showed Schumacher driving ineptly around the track, causing Clarkson to comment: “You know what? I don’t think that Michael Schumacher is The Stig.”
That to me seems like they were trying to say, “it’s really not”. I have my own reasons for feeling he wasn’t the stig. I know I’m not the first person to say that. But from the moment he stood there at the back of the studio I felt something weird about him. It was as though he looked very different. From his standing pose to his physique to his style of walking. Even when Jeremy sat him down and asked him whether he’s ready to reveal his identity, he didn’t seem the same. Anyone else sense that? I guess it could have been because an article claims that Top Gear uses different people to play The Stig.
A source on the show added: ‘Look at the pictures of the Stigs from show to show. If you look at the height of Stig in different pictures, that tells its own story.
‘In some he looks a lot taller than others. People have become obsessed with finding who the Stig is but they have not considered that it is possible that it is more than one person. The simple fact of the matter is that there are currently a number of Stigs who drive on the test track. Since the Stig first drove on the show, it has never been practical to have one single driver taking care of all the Stig’s many commitments.’
Well, that’s just great. So who knows. Maybe Michael Schumacher WAS the real STIG!
Okay, I spoke too soon, here’s a wiki article on the matter:
On 21 June 2009, Schumacher appeared on BBC2’s motoring programme Top Gear as The Stig. The BBC has since admitted that Michael Schumacher is not the regular Stig and was there on that occasion because Ferrari would not allow anyone else to drive the Ferrari FXX which was featured in the show.
Ahmed Deedat’s Debate With American Soldiers
September 28, 2009 at 9:17 pm (Adab/Manners, Dawah/Debate)
Tags: Ahmed Deedat, American soldiers, debate, dawah
Ahmed Deedat was a South African Muslim daee (Islamic worker/preacher/speaker) who passed away in 2005. I was researching about him and came across this interesting video. It’s a video where he debates with the American soldiers of the First Gulf War in Saudi Arabia and has 11 parts in total.
One of the things that was interesting was his way of talking which I believe is very important in dawah. It is very important to be polite and I also understand how easy it is to lose one’s patience when something hurtful is said about one’s religion or about oneself. Which is all the more why I really appreciate and respect those who manage to maintain patience and remain calm and continue the work of dawah. And if one reflects upon the word dawah which means “invitation (to Islam)” then one should understand naturally that the gesture of inviting someone should be filled with kindness, gentleness, and of brotherhood.
The second thing I truly appreciate about spearkers like Ahmed Deedat and Dr. Zakir Naik is that they have not simply studied the Quran but also other religious scriptures. It is easier to invite others to Islam when you understand their religion and them better.
InshaAllah, we can take examples from such Muslims in our community and aim to be better Muslims.
Sleep Deprivation May Lead to Alzheimer’s?
September 28, 2009 at 3:02 am (Health, medicine)
Tags: alzheimer's disease, cure, medicine, research, sleep, sleep deprivation
Neurologic diseases are one of the worst diseases and Alzheimer’s disease is one of them. It’s a progressive disease where there is loss of brain cells (neurons) which results in progressive memory loss. So far, there is nothing to reverse the process and our best plan of action is to try and limit the progression and prevent the disease.
This is just a start to try and understand the disease a bit better and hopefully someday to try and find a cure or a way to prevent the disease.
“The research was conducted in mice and is preliminary, and it may not apply to humans. Still, the possible link between sleep deprivation and Alzheimer’s raises the prospect of possible treatments that target related pathways in the brain, explained study author Dr. David M. Holtzman, chairman of neurology at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis.
“This might be a way to delay or prevent the disease by doing something in middle life” rather than waiting until something goes wrong, Holtzman said.
The Alzheimer’s Association estimates that as many as 5.3 million people in the United States have the disease, which is the country’s seventh-leading cause of death. Alzheimer’s disease is incurable, and although some treatments are available, they only relieve symptoms. In some cases, those symptoms include sleep problems.
Holtzman and his colleagues were not initially looking at sleep, but instead wanted to better understand how a protein clogs the brains of people with Alzheimer’s. It’s not clear how these clogs, known as plaques, and structures called “tangles” cause symptoms. But experts think it may have something to do with their disruption of how neurons communicate with each other.
The researchers developed a way to monitor the levels of the protein by the hour in both humans — through a continual measurement of their spinal fluid via a catheter — and mice.
The researchers discovered that the level of the protein went up during waking hours and fell during sleep. Holtzman said that its levels may be related to brain activity, which is higher during waking hours.
In mice, the researchers found that sleep deprivation boosted the levels of the protein, which builds up in plaques.
If a person is awake for a long time, levels of the protein might build up, Holtzman said. This could play a role in middle age because Alzheimer’s disease begins to clog the brain several years before symptoms become apparent.”
For the entire article, click here. It reminds me of something I was discussing with my mother recently. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said that for every disease Allah created there is a cure. All we need is the ability to discover that cure.
“There is no disease that Allah has created, except that He also has created its treatment.”(Al-Bukhari)
Back From My Ramadan Break
September 27, 2009 at 8:35 pm (Hadith, Naseeha/Advice, Ramadan)
Tags: Death, fasting, forgiveness, Hadith, monday, post-ramadan, shawwal, thursday
I had over a month long break from blogging. Hope everyone had a good Ramadan and Eid.

Even though I wasn’t able to read the Quran this year, I felt it was a more beneficial Ramadan this year and that’s what counts. However, we have to remember that just because Ramadan is over, our ibadat shouldn’t and we should use Ramadan to make improvements in ourselves and follow it through the rest of the year.
Shawwal is here and one can utilize this month to keep the shawwal fasts.
“Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan, and then follows it by (fasting) six days of Shawwal, it is as though he has fasted the whole year.”
“Whosoever observes fast in Ramadan and then follows up with six fasts in Shawwal, will be regarded as though he had been fasting every day.” (Reported by Muslim)
It was proven from Abu Ayyub (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Whosoever observes fast in Ramadan and then follows up with six fasts in Shawwal, will be regarded as though he had been fasting every day.” (Reported by Ahmad, Muslim, Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi)
One can combine the shawwal fasts with the fasts of Mondays and Thursdays for double rewards.
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to fast on Monday and Thursday. On being asked about that the Prophet said: “Deeds are presented on every Monday and Thursday. Allah forgives every Muslim or every believer, except for those who are forsaking each other. He says [about them]: ‘Leave them.’ “ (Reported by Ahmad with authentic chain of narrators)
And the same can be done for fasting on the 13th, 14th and 15th days of Shawwal:
Abu Dharr Al-Ghafari reported: “The Messenger of Allah ordered us to fast for three days of every month – that is, on the days of the full moon (the 13th, 14th, and 15th of the lunar month). And he said: ‘It is like fasting the whole year.’” (Reported by An-Nasa’i)
Although, one can fast on these days of every Islamic calendar month.
Besides fasting, we should constantly seek forgiveness for our sins since we never know when we may reach the end of our journey. Infact, last night I suddenly woke up with great fear as though something terrible was going to happen and I wouldn’t live to see daylight. Automatically I started to ask for forgiveness repeatedly until I felt the feeling pass and could go back to sleep. But it made me realize how important it is to constantly seek forgiveness for our sins. We take our time for granted and live as though we have all the time in the world. Our Prophet (saw) used to seek forgiveness more than 70, and according to some narrations more than 100, times a day!
From Anas, radiyallahu ‘anhu, who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah, sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam, say:
“Allah the Almighty has said: ‘O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me, and hope in Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds in the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I shall forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with an earthful of sins and were you then to face Me, without having associated anything with Me, I shall grant you an earthful of pardon.’”
[Recorded by Al-Tirmidhi, who said that it is a good and sound hadith]
There is no excuse to not seek forgiveness. Make a habit of seeking forgiveness before and after every prayer and eventually increase the time and occassions for seeking forgiveness such as before leaving the house, before entering your home, upon waking up, upon going to sleep, etc.
There’s a lot more one can do like changing bad habits and replacing them with good ones. But the important thing is to keep working on ourselves.
Ramadan Special
August 18, 2009 at 1:42 am (Islam, Ramadan)
Tags: Al Maghrib Institute, Heart Wheel Journal, Ilminar, Muhammad Alshareef, Ramadan, Webinar
The Holy Month of Ramadan is only a few days away and it’s good to be prepared and make the best of this month.
For now, here’s a few things to get us all started.
1. Ramadan’s Ilminar by Muhammad AlShareef
It’s starting tonight so sign up as soon as possible.
Ilminar concluded but I believe you can listen to it here.
2. Heart wheel journal
To help keep up with the progress during Ramadan
3. Day 3 of Heart Wheel Journal
InshaAllah, I’ll be adding more useful things soon.
Indian Actor Detained At Newark Airport
August 16, 2009 at 9:41 am (Life, News)
Ever heard 2 completely different versions of a story? Well, this is the perfect case scenario.
I recently heard of the Indian actor, Shahrukh Khan being detained at Newark Airport (ironically at a time when Indians are celebrating their Independence day – August 15th) because, well, coz he is a Muslim. The timing is also ironic considering his next project to be released is “My Name Is Khan” which is based on racial profiling.

According to an American paper, SRK downplayed the event and it was reported as if the whole incident was no biggie. Which actually isn’t a biggie because he’s famous but rather because he was among many who undergo racial profiling. Such reporting is nothing new when it comes to American papers as far as I have seen.
“I told them I am a movie star,” Press Trust quoted Khan as saying.
The reported detention made top news on TV stations in India.
Kahn told reporters in suburban Chicago on Saturday that he did not want an apology from the U.S. government. Asked about what happened, he simply said: “I think it’s a procedure that needs to be followed, but an unfortunate procedure.”
His surname is Khan not Kahn. *rolls eyes* Evidently, the news reporter can’t spell because they are too busy writing their own version and downplaying the reality of security checks. Ever heard of Google, sir?
According to other papers such as the Hindustan Times, he was quite upset by it.
Bollywood icon Shah Rukh Khan was on Saturday questioned for two hours at the Newark airport in the US over his surname and was freed only after Indian diplomats intervened.
The Indian government and entertainment industry reacted furiously after the 43-year-old actor, named by Newsweek last year as one of the world’s 50 most powerful men, revealed how he was detained and stopped from even using his mobile telephone.
“They checked me because I was an Asian,” the actor said. “They wanted to know why I came to the US and where I am staying.”
Shah Rukh’s manager Niloufer Qureshi earlier told IANS over telephone from Mumbai: “He was detained because his surname is Khan. He was kept until officials from the Indian embassy intervened.”
According to Gulfnews paper:
“I was really hassled perhaps because of my name being Khan. These guys just wouldn’t let me through,” he said in a text message to reporters in India.
“Absolutely uncalled for, I think. I felt angry and humiliated,” said Khan, who just finished a month long shoot in the US for his upcoming film, My Name is Khan, which is a Muslim man’s experience with racial profiling.
According to the American papers he was detained for 66 mins whereas according to the Gulf paper, he was held back for a couple of hours. He was lucky he had the Indian government to help him in this regard. What about the poor Muslims who have no connections whatsoever and are detained for hours to days because they look or sound Muslim. It’s an unfortunate situation and although Obama is trying to improve the image of America by visiting Middle Eastern countries, it would be really helpful if there was a way to change the perception of Americans towards Muslims as well.